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iraffiruse: Frozach Submitted

Wed, 06 Feb 2013 19:38:47 +1030

iraffiruse:

Frozach Submitted

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f-ckyeah1990s: marilyn manson - kiddie grinder

Wed, 06 Feb 2013 19:31:08 +1030

f-ckyeah1990s:

marilyn manson - kiddie grinder

cognitivedissonance: panic-ale: Some days even the red socks,...

Wed, 06 Feb 2013 18:35:24 +1030

cognitivedissonance:

panic-ale:

Some days even the red socks, teacups and pixiedust don’t make up for all the grown-up bullcrap you gotta put up with. That’s ok. The toy cars and zombie dolls will all still be there tomorrow, waiting for you to play.

Yeah…

bryko: AN ACTUAL SLIDE FROM NINTENDO’S 2003 E3 PRESS...

Wed, 06 Feb 2013 08:16:50 +1030

bryko:

AN ACTUAL SLIDE FROM NINTENDO’S 2003 E3 PRESS CONFERENCE

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fuckyeahawesome90s: Kylie Minogue and Nick Cave

Tue, 05 Feb 2013 05:49:23 +1030

fuckyeahawesome90s:

Kylie Minogue and Nick Cave

Graffiti tunnel london south bank

Tue, 05 Feb 2013 04:26:14 +1030

Graffiti tunnel london south bank

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it8bit: The Art of Blake Wheeler DeviantArt | Store Original...

Tue, 05 Feb 2013 04:17:03 +1030

it8bit:

The Art of Blake Wheeler

DeviantArt | Store

Original paints available at Etsy

bad-dominicana: nadiaaboulhosn: absolutely perfect

Tue, 05 Feb 2013 04:15:20 +1030

bad-dominicana:

nadiaaboulhosn:

absolutely perfect

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REGRETS OF THE DYING

Mon, 04 Feb 2013 19:05:59 +1030

REGRETS OF THE DYING:

youmightfindyourself:

By: Bronnie Ware

For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives.

People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. I learnt never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them.

When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.

It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.

2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.

This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.

By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.

Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.

We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.

It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.

When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.

Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.

yaldabaoth: hipstertheory: hipstertheory: people who think romantic relationships are the only...

Sun, 03 Feb 2013 19:30:36 +1030

yaldabaoth:

hipstertheory:

hipstertheory:

people who think romantic relationships are the only important things in life

people are reblogging this post

i feel compelled to let you all know that that is me and i made that face from my friend grabbing my balls

okay now I’ll reblog it

ahtist: “this butt… is the best butt.”

Sun, 03 Feb 2013 19:23:35 +1030

ahtist:

“this butt… is the best butt.”

storagegeek: This can also be applied to mangos and sometimes...

Sun, 03 Feb 2013 19:23:07 +1030

storagegeek:

This can also be applied to mangos and sometimes pineapples.